It’s a glorious new year filled with endless possibilities. We each have the opportunity to mindfully focus on the person we are at present and make a pact with ourselves to keep that present person focused and positively charged. Will it be easy? Yes, it can be with five easy steps to help keep you balanced.
Step 1: Choose Simplicity
The very first step to a mindful new you is to rid yourself of excess. You must thoughtfully choose to live more simply. While it sounds easy, you have to be sure you are ready for what that means.
Many of us carry unnecessary burdens around each day. We overextend ourselves. Our “downtime” is watching television while simultaneously responding to emails and checking social media accounts. We opt for packing our schedules full of social obligations or business meetings to get ahead, or worse, to ensure we are doing what everyone else is doing.
Choosing simplicity means thoughtfully giving these norms up and focusing only on what will bring you light and fulfillment. It means turning your attention to what your body craves. It means silencing the noise that surrounds you day after day.
Step 2: Establish Bodily Awareness
Your body is the hub of all communication. Listen to what it is telling you. Before your feet hit the floor in the morning, spend a few moments reflecting on what you can do for your body that day. It may be as simple as doing a few breathing exercises, or as great as seeking counsel on a tender spot, mark, or lump you have been ignoring. Spend a few moments focusing your mind on each part of your body. Let your thoughts linger. Begin with you toes, then your ankles, etc. work your way up to your head, feeling each point of your body and addressing any aches and pains that may arise.
Step 3: Release Negative Energy
Negative energy can work a number on you mentally and physically. When we harbor stress, it can cause a number of problems. Find a way to release that stress. Choose a meaningful outlet for yourself like physical exercise, massage, yoga, soaking in a salt bath, whatever will help you rid yourself of the toxic energy that consumes you.
Step 4: Consult Mindfulness Tools
Often with each new year, we start strong on our intentions and slowly wane with each passing day. Find tools specific to your passions to help keep you on track. Use an app on your phone or listen to a podcast. Try journaling for a few minutes a day to remind yourself why you chose to be more mindful. Find something that works for you and keeps you focused on your inner goals.
Step 5: Accept Your Mindful or Mindless Self
While we all have great aspirations for change, slip ups will probably happen. That is okay! Give yourself the gift of acceptance. Know that you will backslide a few times throughout the course of the year, but it is never too late to try again. At any point in your journey you can refocus your thoughts and put in place reasonable actions that will get you back on track. Also keep in mind, you will likely need to reevaluate your original course throughout the year and make adjustments as you conquer some areas.
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